Saturday, July 2, 2011

Looking for true LOVE?????



True love????? is it really exist the word "true love" or it is just a word to describe a relationship that fits to each other not parasitic but both benefits to each other. True love is a mix of emotions and conviction. not just romantic sunset, it comes in as may forms and instances as there are people. so how does true love happen?


for people who are already in love to a person who say's the destined person  for them, they can say it is true love. For others, its the person you can easily love but as hard as gold to forget but for others who based it on the heart who chooses the person, its true love if both the boy and the girl love each other so much but for me, true love is like looking for a relationship and expecting that it would be your dream person but unexpectedly you fall to a wrong person, and this person is not likely to be you're dream person but still you cant even stop loving his/her. It's more likely to love her even thou she's not you're type, for her nothingness you still do, its not like being obsessed to that person but more likely being in love or its just true love.


feel something unexpected???unexplainable???uncontrollable???


True love isn't just about the feelings, emotion or thoughts rather the feeling of being complete with your partner, feeling of satisfaction or contentment. Many people thought love is an mix emotion and conviction but not some irrational feeling. for me, true love is more likely an involuntary action of the heart and mind to choose whom to fall in love, unexpectedly with someone we don't even think you will love. unexplainable why you love that person and the uncontrollable feeling that deeply fall in love to her and make you think and imagine how did you love that person.


Searching for it is like making your choice of music, you've always want it to be the best. music have different genre ad expresses love in different ways and love songs is good on it by having the deepest words and meanings of love.


love is something the you feel for someone special for you, love is an act of will-namely both intention and an action, will also implies choice. we do not have to love. we choose to love. love is what you feel, loving is the act of will and to love is the choice you made.


Heart of mind


"love is blind" its the phrase used by many people to say or to express disappointment for the person they love by not knowing that they really love that person so much. You can only truly be in love with one person at a time-how can you focus when there are so many other distractions?


people compare love in many ways and in many things, can be explain in different ways, express or show in many ways. That's why love is universal, it cannot be learned but can feel, better to give than to receive,a feeling not an emotion, 4 letter word with millions of meanings. a feeling but rarely can break a human heart into pieces.


its simple and easy to compare love, a good example is this, "love is like a storm, you don't have to wait until the rain stops, sometimes you just need to know how to dance in the rain." its simple to understand, it says that sometimes you don'd need to wait until he/she will stop loving you all you need to do is go with the flow of life and enjoy every seconds of it like dancing in the rain.


Love Quarrel


love problems??? misunderstanding, third party, family problems, poverty or break ups??? etc... here are some problems that a relationship may encounter, problems that sometimes just simple but getting bread that affects the both of them.


People hates problems in their life, others have different styles on how they can forget or somehow feel that there are no problems that they are facing. many people drink liquor to forget, they think its the best way to do it, others who are emo uses blades to cut their wrist, by that they feel relief  of their problems, others only smile or laugh at their problems but in contrary others cry they use to do it to release it but for people who is called "DOTA Boys" a single game of Defense of the Ancient or DOTA for short is enough to temporarily forget problems and replace with happiness 


King and Queen of Hearts


Couple is the word that refers to two individual who are like a whole, being dependent do not fit to it, couple is like a independent and working together as whole.


People mistake love just having it would be good enough to build a good relationship.


couple is consist of two individual who love each other, it is common for a couple and in addition others say's that a couple needs time, respect and trust to each other for a better relationship, but for me, satisfaction and contentment is enough to build a good relationship next to love, these two is much more important than others, because many people are lacking of these factors and one of the major causing of problems, and in result, 3rd party is created. By not having satisfaction to the one you said you love, you are finding someone who can satisfy you and this is one of the sickness of many people they keep on finding someone who is much better and they think that can satisfy them. Contentment is also a big factor by not having contentment 3rd parties always been created because they are always finding better on what they have.




Dr. Love


being in love is good for your health. love can make a broken heart smile, laugh and beat again, love can heal the heart which is broken, it cannot explain by science but true, being in love can make a person much more healthier or be unhealthy.


"Lovesick" can be bad or good to others some people says its not because when they're in love they experience sleepless nights, lack of appetite, acne and stress, this is maybe a sign of being in love but for others they take it or being in love makes them healthy, full of energy, very inspired and happy.


its a medicine that can be useful to others but like other drugs that if over dosed can be addicted love also do, you will be hooked if you love so much like  liquor says "drink moderately" so love moderately, "cigarette smoking is dangerous to your health." for love to much is not good so just love and don't overdo it.



Live your life with Love


True love, mix of all aspects in love, it doesn't have to do with just love, its not a one way street to think that you can carry a relationship alone in your own-forget it, a relationship is worked together by , mutually for each other benefits. true love is a balanced partnership of both, who enters a relationship and mutually grow and help each other to develop and strengthen it.


A true loving person isn't  just loving he/she does all the aspect of love without any doubt, happy with the choice of love, satisfied with your partner, contented with having only her, respect all her decisions, understands all corners of the problem and love your partner with all your might.


True love isn't just a feeling of bursting love for a person its the fulfillment you find with her in life together is a sign of affirmation and evidence that both of you are truly good for each other.


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